Why Men Cheat Part I

Recently, I wrote an article that highlighted the seven main reasons why men cheat. In that article I sighted the most obvious reasons why someone would have the audacity to have an emotional or sexual liaison outside of a committed relationship or marriage.

In this article, I would like to focus on the first reason why men cheat. Keep in mind that a higher percentage of men, over women, commit infidelity but the numbers are quickly closing in between the sexes.

And if you're in a relationship with someone who is cheating on you, I would like to help you understand the reality surrounding the cheater's mentality.

The number one reason why men cheat ladies is due to a lack of integrity.

When you look the word, integrity, up in the dictionary it defines integrity as someone who has a strict adherence to a standard of conduct or value.

The word has such friends in its definition as unity, honesty, soundness, and independence.

So, consider for a minute what it is your man is doing. He is not acting like a man who is of sound mind and body. He is not honest with himself or you.

His cheating is not about you, although he may be the first to blame you. It was never about you and the sooner you understand that, the quicker you will heal.

Today, you are a victim ... to the sickness of a diseased mind. A mind that has no idea what it means to be faithful, honest, and of integrity.

Don't let the actions of someone you love downsize the person you have worked your life to become.

Claim your truth and let it guide you out of this place of darkness and if he, or she, is unwilling to get some help, either through couple's counseling or some major lifestyle change, continue onward my friend.

There are much brighter days ahead. You will get through this time and your relationship with yourself will prosper even if the one with your partner doesn't.

Discovering just one reason as to why men cheat is a small step closer to healing, if not for the man, at least for the woman who loves him.

I could give you ten thousand more reasons, but unless a man is willing to put forth the effort to change for the better, all of the reasons in the world aren't gonna miraculously make him monogamous.

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