Why Men Cheat Part VII

Before discussing the final reason why men cheat, in our Cheater series, let's examine some other reasons not yet explored about cheaters.

There are as many reasons why people cheat as there are reasons for a persons failed relationship. Unhappiness, boredom, and not knowing what you want are just a few other reasons why men cheat. It also needs to be repeated that you are not responsible for the actions of your partner.

If you are in a relationship where your partner has decided to clone the title of "cheater," your partner is 100% responsible for his own actions regardless or whether or not he has chosen to blame you.

As unfortunate as it is, some people have bad lifestyle habits and no amount of trying to get them to see that they are hurting you, that their behavior is the main reason why your marriage has failed ... that they are traveling down a dead end road, is going to get them to change.

Changing might only happen after your partner has hit rock bottom. And unless you think that you need to hit it together, there is very little reason why you should suffer for his actions.

Our seventh and final reason why men cheat is due to all of the MISINFORMATION going on in their heads. Your husband thinks that skipping out on you for a fling with a woman he barely knows is what he needs in his boring life.

Your partner would rather have relations with a stranger he met online than with the woman he's been in a relationship with for years.

Why men cheat? Men cheat due to a lack of correct information and a lot of lousy thinking. They think that others are somehow responsible for their misery and or their happiness, and that the grass must be greener on the otherside .

By omitting personal responsibility, they place blame on others for how they choose to act or not act. And because they live their lives with this particular mindset, they seek out others to make them feel better... for the moment.

Cheating is a sickness; a dis-eased state of being that starts in the mind and works its way out into a physical expression.

A cheater doesn't wake up one day and say, I think I'll go out and cheat on my wife and ruin my marriage and cause my wife to divorce me and my children to resent me.

Cheating is best understood as an act of infidelity that occurs after a spiritual sickness goes untreated for some length of time.


Before men can ever begin to entertain the idea of giving up cheating, and living in monogamy, they might want to search their souls deeply and uncover whether or not the lifestyle of only one woman and one family is really in their DNA.

If they do discover that it isn't, the world won't stop just because they can't be faithful. It does, however, clear the way for others to invest in someone who has similar wants and needs.

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