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Dysfunctional Relationships
Dysfunctional relationships are partnerships that don't function well because of the emotional baggage that has been brought into the mix by one or both partners. Its foundation is built on fear. One or both partners interact by re-acting defensively to old emotional wounds that are triggered by fear. When this happens, a man will abuse his wife because she doesn't meet his expectations. In his mind, his actions are justified. She, on the other hand, tolerates his behavior due to her feelings about herself. Functional Relationships
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Dysfunctional Relationships
Fear Suspicion Chaos Distrust Abusive (emotional, mental, physical, spiritual) Confusion
Codependent relationships are dysfunctional relationships.
In fact, any unhealthy relationship is a dysfunctional relationship.
If a relationship is not contributing to your emotional, mental, psychological, and spiritual well-being, it is NOT functional.
And if it is not functional ... over time, it will manage to break your spirit, if you don't manage it!
Healthy people attract healthy relationships because they carry within themselves not just the belief, but the feeling that they are much more than their pain.
They reject being treated disrespectfully by others and will not hesitate to remove themselves from negative people.
Energy attracts like energy.
And unless you've worked to clear your energy of all the things and people, past and present, bogging you down, you will attract others to you who reside in a similar energy field.
You will, without much thought, enter into relationships with a baggage full of woes, expecting the other person to fix you.
The truth is you need to work on becoming healed despite a relationship, before a relationship, while in a relationship, and even after a relationship ends.
It's rare that anyone passes through this life unscathed by some form of tragedy...
The reality is that most people grow up in dysfunctional families... for years. And as a result, people learn unhealthy ways of relating and being.
It will take time to mend your brokeness ...
Working through your pain and releasing its effect on you increases your energy and uplifts your spirit.
And as you evolve, you automatically attract a whole new world of people into your life.
You will begin to attract people like yourself ... those who are living an extra-ordinary life rather than an ordinary one.